Engagement Rings
Toi et Moi engagement rings.
The toi et moi engagement ring — French for "you and me" — features two stones set side by side, symbolising two souls coming together in love. This romantic and fashion-forward design has been adored by royalty and celebrities for centuries, from Napoleon's proposal to Josephine to modern red-carpet moments. Our Australian-crafted toi et moi rings use GIA or IGI certified diamonds and gemstones in captivating combinations, allowing you to mix shapes, sizes, and even stone types for a truly personal expression of your partnership.
Buying Guide
Everything you need to know about toi et moi engagement rings.
Toi et moi rings offer unparalleled creative freedom — you can pair two diamonds, two gemstones, or one of each, in matching or contrasting shapes. The two stones are typically set at a slight angle to each other, creating a graceful bypass or open setting that wraps around the finger. Our designers are passionate about helping you select the perfect stone pairing, whether you're drawn to classic diamond combinations or bold mixed-gemstone designs.
What does toi et moi mean?
Toi et moi is French for "you and me," and the design features two stones set together to represent the union of two people. The style dates back to the late eighteenth century when Napoleon Bonaparte gave Josephine a toi et moi ring with a sapphire and diamond. It remains one of the most romantic and symbolically rich engagement ring styles available.
What are the most popular stone combinations for toi et moi rings?
Popular combinations include two diamonds in different shapes (such as pear and round), a diamond paired with a coloured gemstone like a sapphire or emerald, or two matching gemstones. Mixing a round brilliant with a pear or marquise is particularly fashionable, creating beautiful asymmetry. Our showrooms have a wide selection of pairings for you to explore.
What is the history of toi et moi engagement rings?
The toi et moi style gained fame in 1796 when Napoleon presented Josephine with a bypass ring featuring a pear-shaped sapphire and diamond. The design enjoyed renewed popularity during the Art Nouveau and Art Deco periods, and has experienced a major resurgence in recent years. Its enduring appeal lies in its deeply romantic symbolism of two lives intertwined.
Which celebrities have worn toi et moi engagement rings?
Several high-profile figures have popularised the toi et moi style, including Emily Ratajkowski, Megan Fox, and Ariana Grande, each with their own unique interpretation. These celebrity endorsements have brought the style into the mainstream, inspiring couples to embrace the two-stone design. The versatility of the toi et moi means each ring can be as individual as the wearer.
Can I mix different diamond shapes in a toi et moi ring?
Absolutely — mixing shapes is one of the defining features of a toi et moi ring and is highly encouraged. A pear paired with an oval, a round with an emerald cut, or a marquise with a cushion all create stunning contrasts. Visit our showrooms for a free consultation and our designers will help you find the combination that best reflects your relationship.
